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When you gift a device that can access the internet, you’re not just gifting the device itself: you’re giving a portal to the entire online world. And while that includes all the fun bits, like chatting with friends and finding new favourite games, it also comes with a whole host of potential safeguarding risks.
In the offline world, we teach children and young people how to be safe. We show them how to cross the road carefully, we talk to them about stranger danger, not to touch hot things and what to do in an emergency.
When children and young people are introduced to new devices and given access to the online world, those same safeguarding principles should be applied – and prioritised. Just as you wouldn’t drop your child off at the playground unsupervised on their first trip there, so too should first encounters with online spaces be accompanied and guided.
Every half a second, a child goes online for the first time.(source)
Amidst the Christmas morning excitement and enthusiasm, pausing to do safety set-ups together and talk about online safety might seem a bit ‘bah humbug’. However, you’re not only helping to keep your child or young person safer online, but also beginning to build their cyber resilience.
So, over the 12 Days of Christmas this year, here’s 12 ways to keep your child or young person safer on their new devices.
Whether it’s a gaming console, a tablet, streaming services on TV, notifications on their watch or your child’s first phone, all devices have safeguarding risks.
Conversations with your children are key to keeping them safer online. Discuss everything from safety settings to social media to cyber security together.
Remember, it’s not a tick box exercise to get over and done with! These initial conversations are just the beginning. Keep online safeguarding and device safety regular and ongoing topics of conversation in your household.
Safety settings. As with the parental controls, utilise the existing features fully. It’s easy to forget about using safety settings or think, ‘I’ll do this later’ but right now is much better than an inevitable never!
Visit our Safety Centre to learn how to use safety settings on the most popular platforms and games.
Talk to your child about the important of being kind and mindful of other people’s feelings online. Make sure your child knows it’s important to report bullying behaviour, even when it’s directed at other people.
Understanding the value of money is an important life lesson for every child. It’s just as essential for that understanding to be applied to the online world too! Loot boxes, game prices, streaming services, film downloads, in-game currencies and DLC (extra downloadable content) are just a few of the financial elements that your child will encounter online.
Teach them about the real-world value and the importance of asking permission before making purchases (and if your bank account details are linked, make sure to set up a PIN!)
As well as using PINs to protect your pay from being spent on Minecraft skins, set up passwords and passcodes on devices. You might want to use a code to protect your child from downloading a game without your permission or to set screen time schedules. There’s a range of restrictions you can choose from, depending on the device.
Introduce your child to password safety with our special Christmas Password Pack which includes fun colouring in activity sheets.
Watch our award-winning animated video to help teach the children in your care about why passwords are important.
Before handing over your child’s first phone or new device, discuss and agree on time limits. Be firm but fair and – most importantly – realistic. Some devices will let you set this by game, app, platform, or device so you can let technology help monitor them but keep a watchful eye for yourself. Regular screen breaks are important, too.
P.S. Parents, remember that we need to be good roles model and follow the screen time rules too!
Young people making new friends online is not unusual in today’s digital world. Social media platforms, gaming consoles and plenty of apps can all have elements of social interactivity, whether that is with people the user adds themselves or strangers. It’s therefore really important that your child or young person is prepared with the knowledge needed to manage online relationships.
Talk to them about the importance of:
keeping their personal information safe, including their location and school name
never sharing inappropriate photos
always come to you if an adult interacts with them online.
It is estimated that at any one time approximately 750,000 individuals are looking to connect with children online for sexual purposes, including grooming for sex.
It is all too easy to overshare or accidentally share details about our lives online. We can unintentionally give away our addresses via a letter in the background of a photo or disclose details about where a child goes to school in a ‘proud parent’ post about their latest academic achievement.
Talk to your child about what is and what isn’t appropriate to share online. As a family, get into the habit of always double checking what you’re about to post or share online to make sure it isn’t giving away personal information. Check the settings for who can view posts and interact with your child on games and apps they want to play. Always choose the most private options available.
When setting up a new phone or device for your child, make sure you’ve turned safe search on wherever possible. Not only do search engines like Google have this option but your internet provider itself will likely have this feature.
Safeguarding your child online is not a one-off task. Check in regularly and keep an eye out for changes in behaviour, including secrecy or obsessive behaviour linked to their device. And remember, you’re aiming for an open, parental relationship, not a surveillance state!