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Last Updated on 21st May 2025

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Published: May 21, 2025

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Online video chat can help us communicate with our loved ones, even if they’re at the other side of the world. But what happens when children and young people use this technology to connect with strangers?

What is a Randomised Chat Room?

Randomised chat rooms are platforms that connect you with a random stranger for a one-on-one video chat, with Omegle being the ‘original’ and most well-known of its time. You usually know nothing about the other user upon connection and these platforms often prioritise maintaining anonymity. You can remain in a conversation once paired with another user or choose to be reallocated to someone else.

Most of these platforms have an age rating of 18 years or older, but do not verify a user’s age which is why many children and young people are able to access them.

Some of the most popular platforms are:

OmeTV

Chatroulette

Emerald Chat

Monkey

‘Ro-meet’ on Roblox

Why Do Young People Use Them?

Children and young people might seek out randomised chat rooms for a variety of reasons, including:

  • Anonymity
  • To meet new people
  • Seeking support and advice without judgement
  • To overcome shyness or avoid social anxieties of the real world
  • Exploring their sexuality
  • Finding communities with shared interests
  • They think it’s funny
  • Their friends want to do it
  • As a joke or fun with their friends
  • Curiosity

Risks

Children can encounter users who initiate sexual conversations or expose themselves inappropriately. Additionally, they can come across other harmful content such as racism, sexism, homophobia or other forms of hateful ideologies that might be a path to radicalisation.
It is frequently reported that children and young people are encouraged or coerced into exposing themselves on camera, whether it’s directly within the chatroom or if they are led from a chat room to another platform. The video can be secretly recorded by the perpetrator, with the images being kept and used to further extort the child or young person further.
Due to the anonymity and randomised pairing of chat rooms, predators will take the opportunity to connect with children and young people. Some platforms even offer more selective options, allowing users to choose an age range and location of those they wish to be paired with. This can heighten the chances of children and young people being targeted.

Behaviours groomers will often use to target young people in chat rooms:

  • Using alternative versions of inappropriate language to dodge moderation e.g., ‘fr34ky’ instead of ‘freaky’.
  • Asking for their age early into the interaction.
  • Leading them to a more private platform, such as Snapchat or Discord.
Children and young people might be tricked into sharing their personal information such as their name, location, school or social usernames. This can then be used inappropriately and puts them at risk of being located, having their identity stolen or their information made public.

How To Spot If a Child Is Using Chat Rooms

It can be tricky to identify if a child in your care is using these platforms, but there are some signs to look out for:

  • Excessive time on devices, especially late into the night.
  • Secrecy about their online activity.
  • Speaking to unfamiliar people online or mentioning ‘friends’ whose names you don’t recognise.
  • Withdrawal from family and friends.

Please note that these are not strictly indicative of children and young people using chat rooms but might signal a need for conversations around their online activity to find out more.

Top Tips

Although these platforms evidently pose significant risk to children and young people, we have some advice on how to protect them from the harms.

Have Open Conversations

Consistently initiate conversations about their online activity and ask open ended questions to leave room for them to speak their mind. Ask questions like, “who do you like talking to online?” and “what do you like to do when you’re online?”. This will give them the opportunity to share their experiences without feeling judged.

Ensure they know who their trusted adults are if they need to discuss something they have seen online that is harmful or has made them uncomfortable.

Monitor Their Online Activity

It’s important to be aware of what platforms the child in your care is using without invading their privacy. Explain to them if they want to use a new platform, they should ask permission from their parent or carer first. If the platform’s age restriction is 18+, we would strongly advise not allowing them access.

Educate Them About Online Safety  

Educate the child or young person on how to use their devices safely, including reporting and blocking content that is harmful. Empowering them to make smarter online decisions will ultimately keep them safer! 

Limit Their Screen Time

If they seem to be spending too much time on their devices, suggest regular breaks and encourage activities that don’t involve screens such as sports, reading or doing a hobby they enjoy.

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